People justify cheating by saying it is not fair others get whatever benefit/s it is & they do not. So they still blame us for it.
The problem with being disabled is the fact that many conditions are fluid, in how they affect us. I can get up one day & do so much, though this is very rare. I can get up some days & do a few things with less effort than normal. Then there are days when even making coffee takes me longer than it should to prepare a meal. There are days The problem is that the system & society do not allow for this fluctuation.