
Originally Posted by
Stepheninleeds
YW 1959. I would contact your local office & ask, at worse they will say no, at best they will say yes, so you have nothing to lose. When you go to such places you are discussing private things, most people do not mind doing it in public, but some do. In your case you have other reasons for asking for this to be in private.
I think you need proper therapy & you need to demand this. As I say, there are people qualified in helping people such as yourself. It can be a long road, with a lot of work, & will be hard for you. However, you want to be free of this as it is controlling you. If you can get the therapy you need you can come through this. Some people have no idea what they are doing, some wish to deal with issues they feel are affecting you. You have the right to raise issues you feel are not been discussed, finding out why, etc. From what you say I would disagree with her on one important fact, if it is causing you problems & worries it is not in the past & cannot just be ignored. If you feel something is affecting you then it is affecting you. This might be something easy to deal with, or harder, but it needs to be discussed so you can move on from it & on to other issues. I am not an expert, but I can say you are not going to be cured in 71/2 hours. You need something more than just counselling. You can fight this, you really can. You can get the help you need, but it might be a battle to get that. I cannot say what sort of therapy you need, & would not, but your doctor should be able to refer you to someone who can assess you & send you to the right person.
I want to add one more thing I say to people such as yourself. Do not see the mountain ahead, do not look at it. Take one step forward, then another, then another. Before long you will be climbing this mountain & you will see things improving, slowly. Or if you see it as a long road of problems to deal with, it is the same, just look down & take one step at a time. You can do this, but only you can. You do not have to do it alone either. You can post here on anything that worries you, & you do have some family support.