Yes folks believe it or not disabled people do have a sex life!
Against all odds I attracted an absolutely gorgeous woman to meet, date and share a delightful intimate holiday in Cyprus.
And we weren't just good friends - we were lovers too.
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But we recently split up amicable - so where did it all go wrong. Not because she's able-bodied and I'm physically disabled but many minor things like we lived 70 miles apart, her place was inaccessible to me, her work commitments, family and friends lived local to her. She had to always visit me - a two hour commute - you can't just pop around for a coffee and chat.
How could I attract such a gorgeous woman in the first place you may ask. Well it's because I never knew what she looked like. When she got in touch I tried to shrug her off as she was too fit for me and had no dealings with disability. We emailed each other then she suggested chatting and before you knew it we met half way for lunch.
You know when you meet someone for the first time and just hit it off well that's how it was. After just a four hour meeting we arranged again to meet at my place (which is accessible to me). Because of the distance she came and stopped for the weekend. Two weeks later we started planning to go away on holiday together - we went 'dutch' too.
Certain things just naturally happen despite barriers. It amazes me how partners adapt to new 'challenges' but where there's a will . ..
I just want people to know - don't wait for things to happen - you need to make them happen. If it works out - great! If not well just try again. You and I have the same feelings and emotions as any other able bodied person and you'll have something to offer.
Am I unique in that I am actively seeking a loving friendship. All replies answered.