Thanks scarletspy I'm now keeping daily diary, my husband is gonna write a letter stating what he does daily for me, I'm very lucky as he I is actually a "charge nurse", so he does all the ugly stuff with out problems. My pal also making a statement as she comes round often to help with meds etc when he working and does school run for me and other bits. Nothing to lose have I. Xxx thanks all you have really boosted me and if I have to crawl I WILL MOST DEFINITELY GET TO THE APPEAL. K