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    Yeah it's good that we can be adults and talk about this as if we were just talking about the weather. I mean it's human and animalistic nature and is perfectly normal. My sweetheart and I are very much in love with each other. She's an amazing woman and is very loving and wonderful. She would do anything for me and I would do the same for her. As far as stress...we really don't have any stress in the relationship despite the obstacles we are facing. We're so happy just being with each other and just being before one another's company. We are really looking forward to what lies ahead in the future. She's actually never had an orgasm in her life and I am dedicated to giving her one as soon as possible, but bless her heart she says she loves pleasing me and that makes her happy enough and when the time comes, I'll be able to give her one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by R0KK17 View Post
    She's actually never had an orgasm in her life and I am dedicated to giving her one as soon as possible, but bless her heart she says she loves pleasing me and that makes her happy enough and when the time comes, I'll be able to give her one.
    This is her lucky day because I'll tell you how she can reach a climax and have an orgasm even if she has never been with a lover experienced enough to know how.

    Men can orgasm very quickly which doesn't help a woman as she takes about 20 minutes to get aroused and near a climax.

    Foreplay is essential. Skin to skin is both sexy and arousing as this organ is very sensitive. When lying facing each other use the back of your fingers to very lightly stroke her spine from neck to bottom - up and down. Gently touch her thighs and bottom with a feather like touch - this will feel very sensual to her.

    The French know how a woman loves to kiss - she'll love being French kissed with passion. Just take your time as there's no rush - that's important.

    Remember - the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain. By now her brain will be going into overdrive for more pleasure.

    Now with your good hand gently brush the back of your hand against her genital area and upper thighs. By know she will be moist but you need to moisten your index and ring finger. Now you are going to give her a thrill that will have a devastating effect on her body.

    There are two areas that are highly sensitive and erotic for a woman. Moisten the area around her clitoris, (the female version of the penis), and gentally rub this area as it has thousands of sensitive nerve endings. And alternatively place your middle finger into her moist vagina with your palm resting on her stomach side. About 3.5 or 4 inches in lies the famous 'g-spot' that you can arouse using one or two fingers. Waggle your fingers at different speeds annd penetrait in and out - it's called foreplay - something us guys tend to forget. As I said a woman takes at least 20 minutes to get fully aroused and you'll love what you'll see just as much as she'll love what's happening to her - all very steamy stuff. Now she'll want you. Just remember to take precautions as the chances of her getting pregnant now are quite high. Who needs to pay for IVH. lol.

    Anyway just thought I'd share this nugget of information with you and whoever else is interested. Have fun!
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    LT, thanks for the tidbit. Unfortunately, I don't have a good hand so I'll have to improvise with a sex toy a friend (who is female) gave me as a gag gift. My girlfriend and I messed around a little bit with it so it'll do just as well. I have no problems getting her wet what-so-ever. Its just the climax I can ALMOST get her to with penetration and even suckling her breasts. Its getting her over the threshold is the hard part lol. Thanks again LT.
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    Sex is a basic function, it is suppose to be pleasurable, even titillating. We should be aroused & enjoy the event. That is not porn, that is not rude, that is the simple fact of it. See how we are discussing it here, in an adult way. It can be done online. If I want porn I can search for that, if i want dirty talk about sex I can find that. This is not that at all.

    Do not give her an orgasm, once she realises what it is & how it makes her feel she will want more, lol!

    It will happen, I know it will because you want it to, she wants it to, & you are not having sex, you both want to make love. That is rare for men, it really is. Most men have no idea about how to please or pleasure a woman. One thing I say is to ask her, ask her what she wants, what she likes, what she does not like. Tell her what you like & do not like. Show her how to masterbate you, & let her show you have to masterbate her.

    Ramming your penis into her until you reach climax is not any option, but that is what most men do. In your case, using what you have at hand is something you both can learn to use wisely, so that both of you get pleasure. She can help you to help her reach climax. For most women a quick ramming is not what they want. The difference is between the 100m race & a marathon.
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    HAAAA! I got a plan! I'm going to bribe her family to leave for the day so we can have the place to ourselves! Brilliant! Wish me luck Stephen lol! again...thanks for the advice! let's see how it works friday.

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    Now that is man's thinking, lol! Just remember you have to bribe her too (Flowers, chocolates, some good sex.....). I do wish you luck. I hope it goes well for the both of you. If all else fails, get the gin out. If you are both drunk you will not remember what happened
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    WE DID IT!!! WE FOUND OUR PERFECT LEVEL OF INTIMACY!! And it was as she put it...."EPIC"! We actually went into our first position (regular cowgirl) and found our perfect rhythm...and it was incredible! She finally had her first orgasm and then I gave her four more throughout the course of the weekend! I incorporated a lot of the tips you guys gave me and I wanna thank you all again for your kind words and advice! It really helped out. My darling Heather also wanted me to say thanks to you guys! Oh and Stephen...no alcohol was needed besides, the smell makes her nauseous. :-)

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    Five in all? OMG, Anyone have Ripley's number? My God, you are a GOD! She will love you for all time. I am pleased for you both. Well, you are both welcome. OMG, five? Do you know how few men can do it once in a lifetime to a woman?

    Never fear, alcohol is not the weapon here, you are! You will make her much higher if you can give her that many orgasms every time, lol! Five?????
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    Lol. Yes Stephen....five! Not bad for a newbie myself huh? lol Hey Stephen do you have a Facebook? If so lemme know and I'll message you my link to it. Thanks again everybody!
    Last edited by R0KK17; 01-18-2012 at 08:29 AM.

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    I am still lost for words on this. To go from 0 to 5. I bet she is telling all her girlfriends about it. Look out for ladies coming onto you

    Yes, I am on FB, you can find the link in my Profile.
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